chore(deps): update tonic monorepo to 0.12.0 #21416

Job	Run time
Check if Build	9s
Check Examples	35s
Draft Release	0s
failure-notification	1s
Test AWS Lambda Build	37s
Run Tests (Cloudflare)	46s
Run Tests (WASM)	42s
Outputs matrix used for cross compilation / setup-matrix	15s
Run Tests on linux-x64-gnu	2m 28s
Run Tests on linux-x64-musl	1m 15s
Run Tests on linux-arm64-gnu	3m 1s
Run Tests on linux-arm64-musl	2m 44s
Run Tests on linux-ia32-gnu	3m 19s
Run Tests on darwin-arm64	1m 22s
Run Tests on darwin-x64	2m 44s
Run Tests on win32-x64-msvc	9m 11s
Run Tests on win32-arm64-msvc	3m 43s
Run Tests on win32-ia32-msvc	7m 45s
Release (AWS Lambda)	0s
Release	0s
build-and-push-image	0s
Publish NPM main package	0s
Semantic Release	0s
Homebrew Release	0s
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