sink(ticdc): use admin statement to query async ddl status (#11535)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #11535

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #11521

What is changed and how it works?

• Use admin statement to query async ddl status since the original querying operation has performance issue.

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)
  Test result in scenarios with a large number of historical DDLs:
  

Questions

Will it cause performance regression or break compatibility?

Do you need to update user documentation, design documentation or monitoring documentation?

• After this PR, the user need grant admin permission to TiCDC in downstream database, otherwise TiCDC will disable the optimization of sink, ddl(ticdc): support querying add index ddl in downstream #11476.
• https://github.com/pingcap/docs-cn/pull/18500/files

Release note

`When the downstream is tidb and super permission is granted, TiCDC supports querying the execution status of the ADD INDEX DDL from downstream database to avoid synchronization failure caused by repeated DDL execution in some cases`

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