sink(ticdc): use admin statement to query async ddl status

[CharlesCheung96]

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #11521

What is changed and how it works?

• Use admin statement to query async ddl status since the original querying operation has performance issue.

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)
  Test result in scenarios with a large number of historical DDLs:
  

Questions

Will it cause performance regression or break compatibility?

Do you need to update user documentation, design documentation or monitoring documentation?

• After this PR, the user need grant admin permission to TiCDC in downstream database, otherwise TiCDC will disable the optimization of sink, ddl(ticdc): support querying add index ddl in downstream #11476.
• https://github.com/pingcap/docs-cn/pull/18500/files

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[CharlesCheung96]

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Codecov Report

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[3AceShowHand]

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[CharlesCheung96]

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• 2024-09-02 06:31:13.582060959 +0000 UTC m=+253198.100113876: ☑️ agreed by 3AceShowHand.
• 2024-09-02 09:04:36.367377096 +0000 UTC m=+262400.885430020: ☑️ agreed by hongyunyan.

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[ti-chi-bot]

In response to a cherrypick label: new pull request created to branch release-8.1: #11549.

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In response to a cherrypick label: new pull request created to branch release-6.5: #11550.

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In response to a cherrypick label: new pull request created to branch release-7.5: #11551.

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In response to a cherrypick label: new pull request created to branch release-7.1: #11552.