feat: add grind annotations for Set.mem_toFinset and Multiset.mem_toFinset

[euprunin]

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Note that the lemmas being annotated are

1. already actively used with grind via explicit grind [lemma] invocations in Mathlib, and
2. already tagged with @[simp].

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[github-actions]

PR summary 3f3cd98ce9

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No significant changes to the import graph

Import changes for all files

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Declarations diff

No declarations were harmed in the making of this PR! 🐙

You can run this locally as follows

## summary with just the declaration names:
./scripts/declarations_diff.sh <optional_commit>

## more verbose report:
./scripts/declarations_diff.sh long <optional_commit>

The doc-module for script/declarations_diff.sh contains some details about this script.

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No changes to technical debt.

You can run this locally as

./scripts/technical-debt-metrics.sh pr_summary

• The relative value is the weighted sum of the differences with weight given by the inverse of the current value of the statistic.
• The absolute value is the relative value divided by the total sum of the inverses of the current values (i.e. the weighted average of the differences).