fix(deps): update tonic monorepo to 0.12.0 #18464

Job	Run time
Check Examples	33s
Check if Build	5s
Draft Release	0s
failure-notification	2s
Run Tests (WASM)	40s
Test AWS Lambda Build	41s
Outputs matrix used for cross compilation / setup-matrix	12s
Run Tests on linux-x64-gnu	50s
Run Tests on linux-x64-musl	2m 26s
Run Tests on linux-arm64-gnu	2m 40s
Run Tests on linux-arm64-musl	2m 55s
Run Tests on linux-ia32-gnu	3m 9s
Run Tests on darwin-arm64	1m 30s
Run Tests on darwin-x64	2m 53s
Run Tests on win32-x64-msvc	7m 42s
Run Tests on win32-arm64-msvc	2m 31s
Run Tests on win32-ia32-msvc	10m 22s
Release (AWS Lambda)	0s
Release	0s
build-and-push-image	0s
Publish NPM main package	0s
Semantic Release	0s
Homebrew Release	0s
	39m 11s

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