Fix kuttl tests

[maltesander]

Description

• Add the password-update-container after trino container (to default into trino container)
• Set gracefulShutdownTimeout in every test to avoid running out of cpu / memory resources with terminating pods.

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1. Changes are OpenShift compatible
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3. Helm chart can be installed and deployed operator works
4. Integration tests passed (for non trivial changes)
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[maltesander]

test: https://ci.stackable.tech/view/02%20Operator%20Tests%20(custom)/job/trino-operator-it-custom/105/

[sbernauer]

Thanks for fixing this!
Custom test passed