[c++] Fix offsets for nullable columns

[nguyenv]

Issue and/or context:

[sc-62104]

We were adding the offset to the ArrowArray's validity buffer directly which is incorrect because the validity is stored as a bit, not as a uint8_t.

Changes:

• Add util::bitmap_to_uint8 which takes a pointer to a bitmap, length, and offset, and returns a vector<uint8_t> representation; if the bitmap is a nullptr, then return a nullopt
• Add helper functions ManagedQuery::_cast_bool_data, formally util::cast_bit_to_uint8, and ManagedQuery::_cast_validity_buffer, which takes the validity buffer of the passed in ArrowArray and returns vector<uint8_t> with the properly shifted offset
• Update ManagedQuery::setup_write_column and ColumnBuffer::set_data to take in an std::optional<std::vector<uint8_t>> where the validity buffer has already been offset and casted to uint8
• Add pytest unit testing for nullable columns with offsetting for string, Boolean, enumeration, and the general case (int, float, etc.)

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[bkmartinjr]

It would be good to add some additional tests:

1. Call Sparse/Dense NDArray write with an array that has a validity buffer, and ensure it acts as expected.
2. For DataFrame, need to verify expected behavior if an index (dimension) column is written with a validity buffer.
3. In test_dataframe, I'd also test the "invalid" timestamp types (NaT) alongside the other nullable types.

[bkmartinjr]

testing requests only at this point - the C++ code looks OK (I did a quick pass only - would be good to get @XanthosXanthopoulos or @jp-dark to review it in more depth)