Upgrade Python3 and dependencies regularly

[cxzhong]

1. Upgrade spkg Python3 to 3.13.9 and some dependencies of python to lastest version, we prepare it for supporting python3.14.
2. fix the ncurses compilation problem. It is caused by The C++ part is not maintained and it is unused for mostly all cases. So we directly do not compile the C++ part.
3. fix the readline package can not be built in gcc15. remove the outdate patch.
4. building sage in high parallel threads may result error. When the sagelib started building, the maxima is still building. It will cause sagelib can not proper find the location of maxima. Just add maxima as a dependency of sagelib.

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