dm: upgrade go-mysql library (#11043)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #11043

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #11041

What is changed and how it works?

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Release note

upgrade go-mysql to fix the connection blocked when read handshake packet

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pull-cdc-integration-kafka-test	0522fd9	link	true	/test cdc-integration-kafka-test
pull-cdc-integration-mysql-test	0522fd9	link	true	/test cdc-integration-mysql-test
pull-cdc-integration-storage-test	0522fd9	link	true	/test cdc-integration-storage-test
pull-dm-integration-test	0522fd9	link	true	/test dm-integration-test
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