feat(core): allow overriding abortOnError for the select method

[kamilmysliwiec]

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What is the current behavior?

Issue Number: #13735

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Pull Request Test Coverage Report for Build 77656634-7398-409b-aea7-2ac85fca7e6b

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• Overall coverage remained the same at 92.243%

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Change from base Build 72f148bc-4145-44b3-a3c4-06a616307114:	0.0%
Covered Lines:	6754
Relevant Lines:	7322

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