New dynamic cache for sliding window attention

[Cyrilvallez]

What does this PR do?

This supersedes #33619 to introduce a new DynamicSlidingWindowCache.

This cache behaves the exact same way as DynamicCache, and contrarily to SlidingWindowCache (static variant), we can correctly continue generation from an existing cache instance (fully filled or not), with more than 1 new token added to the sequence (e.g. for prefix caching).

In order for this to work I had to do the following main modifications:

• I introduced get_past_seen_tokens(), which should replace get_seq_length() (almost) everywhere. This is because once the cache is filled, the 2 will not longer provide the same information, so we need to correctly differentiate to recreate the cache_position
• for every cache class except DynamicSlidingWindowCache, both get_past_seen_tokens and get_seq_length will return the same value, so no issue there
• For every generative model using sliding window, I modified the 4d causal mask creation for the new cache class for both sdpa and eager, and correctly sliced the 2d mask for FA2

Once generate no longer returns legacy cache by default (tuples), we can make this class the default for generative models with sliding window. We cannot do it before because we would lose the information of the past seen tokens if the cache is full.

It also makes a nice precedent to support the same features with the static variant in a subsequent PR.

[Cyrilvallez]

Ok @ArthurZucker it has been a long time on the side but it's now ready for final review!

[Cyrilvallez]

Slow tests for Mistral are all good (4 failing but similar on main)