update AMPI and ROMIO to be compatible gcc14 for spack #176

Job	Run time
buildold_netlrts-linux-x86_64	17m 22s
changa_netlrts-linux-x86_64	6m 3s
charm4py_netlrts-linux-x86_64_tcp	6m 8s
cuda_netlrts-linux-x86_64_buildonly	10m 57s
mpi-linux-x86_64	11m 10s
doc	42s
multicore-darwin-x86_64_projections	1s
mpi-linux-x86_64_syncft	9m 55s
namd_netlrts-linux-x86_64	11m 43s
netlrts-linux-i386	16m 59s
netlrts-darwin-x86_64	1s
netlrts-linux-x86_64	15m 21s
netlrts-linux-x86_64_smp	21m 43s
netlrts-linux-x86_64_syncft	10m 1s
netlrts-win-x86_64_mingw64	17m 51s
shellcheck	5s
spack_ubuntu-latest	23m 29s
ucx-linux-x86_64_openpmix	15m 57s
spack_macos-12	1s
verbs-linux-x86_64_smp	13m 49s
	3h 29m 18s

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