Make install_shared_and_static test more robust

[smittals2]

Issues:

P198393553

Description of changes:

Making the test more robust to prevent flaky behavior:

1. Add more logging
2. Use sync to force file state after delete operations
3. use --fresh with CMAKE to prevent using any cache
4. Turn off parallel CMAKE build

Call-outs:

Point out areas that need special attention or support during the review process. Discuss architecture or design changes.

Testing:

How is this change tested (unit tests, fuzz tests, etc.)? Are there any testing steps to be verified by the reviewer?

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Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 78.98%. Comparing base (6c613fa) to head (66d3110).
Report is 15 commits behind head on main.

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