KAFKA-17348: Add custom produce request parsers

[maxfortun]

This PR adds ability to specify a custom produce request parser. A custom produce request parser would allow to intercept all incoming messages before they get into the broker and apply broker wide logic to the messages. This could be a trace , a filter, or a transform(such as lineage).
The inline new ProduceRequest(new ProduceRequestData(new ByteBufferAccessor(buffer), version), version) was moved out of ProduceRequest.java into its own class ProduceRequestParser.java, and ProduceRequest class was augmented with the dynamic loading of a specified parser class. When no class is specified, the default one is loaded maintaining full backward compatibilty.

JIRA: KAFKA-17348
KIP: KIP-1086

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• Verify design and implementation
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• Verify documentation (including upgrade notes)

Replaces closed PR #16812