fix: select_columns and drop_columns for qualified duplicated field names

[dqkqd]

Which issue does this PR close?

• Closes Unable to drop the mark column added by JoinType::LeftMark if there are multiple joins #18212.

Rationale for this change

DataFrame::drop_columns only considers one field for each name,
it fails to drop columns from dataframe containing duplicated names
from different relations. Such as mark columns created by multiples
Join::LeftMark.

DataFrame::select_columns has the same issue, it fails to select columns
with the same name from different relations.

What changes are included in this PR?

Allow DataFrame::drop_columns and DataFrame::select_columns
work with duplicated names from different relations.

Are these changes tested?

Yes.

Are there any user-facing changes?

No.

[dqkqd]

This line returned SchemaError without the code changes.

    Error: SchemaError(AmbiguousReference { field: Column { relation: None, name: "c1" } }, Some(""))

[dqkqd]

This failed without the code changes

    running 1 test
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    Snapshot: drop_columns_duplicated_names_from_different_qualifiers-2
    Source: datafusion/core/tests/dataframe/mod.rs:627
    ────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────
    Expression: batches_to_sort_string(&drop_res.clone().collect().await.unwrap())
    ────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────
    -old snapshot
    +new results
    ────────────┬───────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────
        1       │-+----+
        2       │-| c1 |
        3       │-+----+
        4       │-| b  |
        5       │-| c  |
        6       │-| d  |
        7       │-+----+
              1 │++----+-------+-------+
              2 │+| c1 | mark  | mark  |
              3 │++----+-------+-------+
              4 │+| b  | true  | false |
              5 │+| c  | false | false |
              6 │+| d  | false | true  |
              7 │++----+-------+-------+
    ────────────┴───────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────────
    To update snapshots run `cargo insta review`
    Stopped on the first failure. Run `cargo insta test` to run all snapshots.
    test dataframe::drop_columns_duplicated_names_from_different_qualifiers ... FAILED

    failures:

    failures:
        dataframe::drop_columns_duplicated_names_from_different_qualifiers

    test result: FAILED. 0 passed; 1 failed; 0 ignored; 0 measured; 769 filtered out; finished in 0.17s

[albertlockett]

thanks for taking this @dqkqd