fix: try merging on interleaving list of dict

[duongcongtoai]

Which issue does this PR close?

• Partially closes DictionaryKeyOverflowError on interleave with nested type containing dictionary #8640 .

Rationale for this change

Implement custom interleaving logic for nested data types that have dictionary. Current main branch uses interleave_fallback which will concat the dictionaries even if they are logically equal (but pointing to different address). There are 2 approaches to work around this:

• make interleave_fallback returns error in case dictionary overflow, and then try merging the dictionary and retry.
• implement custom interleaving logic for these data types (The approach chosen by this PR)

The first solution may provides wider support for any nested data types which contains dictionary (i.e list<struct<list>> )

What changes are included in this PR?

Special interleave handling for specific data types:

• list of dictionary
• list of struct, which containing dictionary fields

Are these changes tested?

Last benchmark

group                                                                          arrow-57.0.0-custom                    arrow-fix-overflow-on-interleave-list-of-dict
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interleave dict(20, 0.0) 100 [0..100, 100..230, 450..1000]                     1.00      4.0±0.18µs        ? ?/sec    1.02      4.1±0.30µs        ? ?/sec
interleave dict(20, 0.0) 1024 [0..100, 100..230, 450..1000, 0..1000]           1.03     19.3±1.47µs        ? ?/sec    1.00     18.8±0.62µs        ? ?/sec
interleave dict(20, 0.0) 1024 [0..100, 100..230, 450..1000]                    1.03     19.8±1.73µs        ? ?/sec    1.00     19.2±0.67µs        ? ?/sec
interleave dict(20, 0.0) 400 [0..100, 100..230, 450..1000]                     1.00      9.5±0.39µs        ? ?/sec    1.00      9.5±0.43µs        ? ?/sec
interleave dict_distinct 100                                                   1.00      3.3±0.13µs        ? ?/sec    1.00      3.4±0.10µs        ? ?/sec
interleave dict_distinct 1024                                                  1.06     11.8±0.57µs        ? ?/sec    1.00     11.1±0.33µs        ? ?/sec
interleave dict_distinct 2048                                                  1.00     42.3±2.77µs        ? ?/sec    1.00     42.2±1.43µs        ? ?/sec
interleave dict_sparse(20, 0.0) 100 [0..100, 100..230, 450..1000]              1.00      4.1±0.21µs        ? ?/sec    1.01      4.1±0.15µs        ? ?/sec
interleave dict_sparse(20, 0.0) 1024 [0..100, 100..230, 450..1000, 0..1000]    1.00     18.8±0.72µs        ? ?/sec    1.00     18.8±0.94µs        ? ?/sec
interleave dict_sparse(20, 0.0) 1024 [0..100, 100..230, 450..1000]             1.01     19.4±1.09µs        ? ?/sec    1.00     19.3±0.54µs        ? ?/sec
interleave dict_sparse(20, 0.0) 400 [0..100, 100..230, 450..1000]              1.00      9.4±0.42µs        ? ?/sec    1.02      9.6±0.37µs        ? ?/sec
interleave list of logically_equivalent_dict 100                               1.08      8.7±0.44µs        ? ?/sec    1.00      8.0±0.29µs        ? ?/sec
interleave list of logically_equivalent_dict 1024                              1.00     29.3±1.16µs        ? ?/sec    1.01     29.6±0.87µs        ? ?/sec
interleave list of logically_equivalent_dict 2048                              1.00     68.6±2.88µs        ? ?/sec    1.02     69.8±1.84µs        ? ?/sec
interleave list struct with logically_equivalent_dict 100                      1.00     25.0±0.60µs        ? ?/sec    1.04     26.0±1.55µs        ? ?/sec
interleave list struct with logically_equivalent_dict 1024                     1.00     91.4±2.43µs        ? ?/sec    1.04     95.2±7.25µs        ? ?/sec
interleave list struct with logically_equivalent_dict 2048                     1.01    180.2±7.38µs        ? ?/sec    1.00    178.1±5.23µs        ? ?/sec
interleave list struct with same dict ptr 100                                  1.00     25.0±0.63µs        ? ?/sec    1.03     25.8±0.92µs        ? ?/sec
interleave list struct with same dict ptr 1024                                 1.00     92.7±2.87µs        ? ?/sec    1.01     93.6±4.87µs        ? ?/sec
interleave list struct with same dict ptr 2048                                 1.00    179.7±7.63µs        ? ?/sec    1.00   180.6±12.30µs        ? ?/sec