Fix build and update to CUDA 12.4

[jordimas]

Changes:

• Update Windows image to 2022 (2019 deprecated and no longer available)
• Update from Python 3.9 (which reach end of live 2025-10-31) to Python 3.10
• Update Windows and Linux from CUDA 12.2 to CUDA 12.4
• Updated OneAPI to 2024.0 (previous older SDK was given 404)
• Fixes to compile in MacOS

[3manifold]

@jordimas PR #1905 was solving the same issue. I also explained all the error details there. Given that you're the new admin, it is suspicious the fact that you ignored that PR (the only green CI for months) and decided to create a duplicate PR. 😡 You did not event leave a comment or mention that PR 👎

[3manifold]

You even "fixed" the CMake warnings correct? 😠 There is also a ticket and a PR for that as well #1899 #1907