feat: better create protocol options

[weboko]

This is a feature request

Problem

Currently options for creating a node are convoluted and spread in the code base.
It get harder to handle and requires some TS hacks to prevent from compilation.

Proposed Solutions

For starters we should split building of options and creation of libp2p which is main consumer of options.

const createOptions = buildCreateOptions(options);
const libp2p = await createLibp2pNode(createOptions);
const wakuNodeOptions = buildWakuNodeOptions(createOptions);

Second step is to consolidate leftover option updates specific for WakuNode:

js-waku/packages/sdk/src/waku.ts

Line 96 in 9b0f1e8

const pingKeepAlive =

Notes

Draft PR: #2072

[danisharora099]

related to #2048

[weboko]

another concern to be addressed - #2056 (comment)