fix: Use create_before_destroy lifecycle on parameter groups to support major version upgrades (#354)

Co-authored-by: thomas.larsson <[email protected]>
fixes #353

Author: thomasplarsson

main.tf

@@ -399,6 +399,10 @@ resource "aws_rds_cluster_parameter_group" "this" {
     }
   }
 
+  lifecycle {
+    create_before_destroy = true
+  }
+
   tags = var.tags
 }
 
@@ -424,5 +428,9 @@ resource "aws_db_parameter_group" "this" {
     }
   }
 
+  lifecycle {
+    create_before_destroy = true
+  }
+
   tags = var.tags
 }