fix: StyledBehindWindowBlur crash in render thread

[RigoLigoRLC]

如果StyledBehindWindowBlur位于Loader中，则在Loader变为非活动状态时，可能触发DQuickBehindWindowBlur渲染任务中引用已释放的对象导致程序崩溃。通过使用QPointer修复了这个问题：在m_item为非法时放弃渲染。

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