Introduce smart dialing in js-libp2p

[p-shahi]

Goal

Reduce the number of outbound spurious dials that result in failed connections. This is especially a problem when dialing WebTransport addresses in Chromium where we often hit the 64 session limit #1896

Ref: notes on smart dialing in go-libp2p https://github.com/libp2p/go-libp2p/releases/tag/v0.29.0

Tasks

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1. fix(libp2p): only dial one address at a time for peers fix(libp2p): only dial one address at a time for peers #2028
2. fix(libp2p): sort addresses to dial as public, then relay fix(libp2p): sort addresses to dial as public, then relay #2031
3. Increase no-redial threshold in browsers to greater than the WebTransport error timeout (fixed in fix(libp2p): only dial one address at a time for peers #2028)
4. feat: track failed/successful dials per-address #2033
   help wanted +1
5. fix: replace autodial retry threshold in peers to be per multiaddr #2114
   P1 kind/architecture +2
   
6. feat: ensure re-dials are sorted by success rate #2150
   P0 kind/enhancement topic/libp2p +3
   

[maschad]

It would be good to dog-feed this in https://github.com/libp2p/universal-connectivity to see how effective our dialling is after this refactor

[dhuseby]

Done!