Get some cross jvm communitcation going

[drdamour]

each lifecycle is in it's own jvm i believe, this makes a shutdown for the server not known to shutdown for apps, which makes it quite chatty. If we could share messages it'd be a bit less chatty.

http://hazelcast.org/ looks promising
http://blog.hazelcast.com/2015/02/09/beginners-guide-to-hazelcast-part-6/