Use correct Intel MKL config file for CMake

[caic99]

Describe Current Status and Possible Solution

Currently, we use a naive implementation to find MKL libraries in ABACUS. This might cause some problems on choosing the correct library when the environment is complicated, and might result in numerical errors. I strongly doubt this is the root cause of #1413 and #1121 .
Since Intel OneAPI(2020+), the Intel MKL comes up with officially supported CMake config files. We should use it whenever possible, and take our implementation as a fall back when using legacy MKL versions.

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[dyzheng]

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[caic99]

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No.
@baixiaokuang Any updates?

[mohanchen]

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[caic99]

Fixed by #4613 and following PRs.