test(telemetry/e2e): make TestTelemetryE2E deterministic + deflake retry tests under merge-queue load #2934

Job	Run time
check-types (3.11)	2m 8s
check-types (3.12)	2m 12s
check-linting (3.10)	1m 46s
Unit Tests (Python 3.10, min deps)	4m 21s
check-linting (3.14)	16m 41s
Unit Tests + PyArrow (Python 3.9, min deps)	4m 58s
Unit Tests + PyArrow (Python 3.10, default deps)	4m 19s
Unit Tests + PyArrow (Python 3.10, min deps)	4m 57s
Unit Tests + PyArrow (Python 3.13, default deps)	4m 22s
Unit Tests (Python 3.9, min deps)	4m 5s
Unit Tests + PyArrow (Python 3.11, default deps)	4m 19s
Unit Tests + PyArrow (Python 3.14, min deps)	19m 33s
check-linting (3.11)	1m 52s
Unit Tests (Python 3.9, default deps)	3m 54s
Unit Tests + PyArrow (Python 3.12, default deps)	5m 27s
check-linting (3.13)	2m 2s
check-types (3.9)	2m 21s
Unit Tests + PyArrow (Python 3.11, min deps)	4m 57s
Unit Tests (Python 3.13, default deps)	3m 38s
check-types (3.13)	2m 4s
check-types (3.10)	2m 13s
Unit Tests (Python 3.11, min deps)	4m 7s
Unit Tests + PyArrow (Python 3.14, default deps)	19m 5s
Unit Tests (Python 3.10, default deps)	3m 31s
Unit Tests (Python 3.14, default deps)	18m 27s
Unit Tests (Python 3.14, min deps)	18m 49s
check-linting (3.9)	1m 59s
Unit Tests (Python 3.12, default deps)	3m 36s
Unit Tests (Python 3.11, default deps)	3m 44s
check-linting (3.12)	2m 5s
Unit Tests + PyArrow (Python 3.9, default deps)	4m 32s
check-types (3.14)	17m 27s
	3h 19m 31s

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