Bump kubernetes-sigs/cluster-api-provider-vsphere to latest release

Author: eks-distro-pr-bot

UPSTREAM_PROJECTS.yaml

@@ -189,7 +189,7 @@ projects:
             go_version: "1.19"
       - name: cluster-api-provider-vsphere
         versions:
-          - tag: v1.9.3
+          - tag: v1.10.0
             go_version: "1.21"
       - name: cri-tools
         versions: