[FlightSQL] Add is_update field to ActionCreatePreparedStatementResult

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Describe the enhancement requested

Following the discussion in the mailing list, a new field is_update in the ActionCreatePreparedStatementResult should be included to let clients know which network flow to use in a Flight SQL Prepared Statement.

Component(s)

FlightRPC

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