Remove @remix-run/node as a direct dependency

[BenJeau]

Hi 👋,

Thanks for such a great library! I was looking at the dependency tree of my React vitejs-based application and I saw a lot of dependencies (50) coming from @tanstack/react-form related to remix. More than half of my dependencies comes from @remix-run/node from @tanstack/react-form.

Would it be possible to make it optional somehow?

I'm unfamiliar with how npm/node.js works in that regard, but I feel like this dependency might have been missed and shouldn't be included especially if the user of the library isn't using remix.

It seems to only be used here https://github.com/TanStack/form/blob/a4400289b14ad2a9e27a6f9b664891b1604bc163/packages/react-form/src/start/utils.ts

Let me know what you think and if there's a way to achieve this or if its completely unfeasible.

Thanks!